the poster duo expresses the middle course between these two perspectives - emotionally closed | too emotional - seem to be the best way?
maybe thats why life sometimes seem to be like a roller coaster. or it is more the case that you cannot really control it, control the way you act in certain situations?
it is probably like it is with all characteristics; the extreme hardly ever is the best decision.
and still it seems to be quite hard to explain what i thought.